Sundays, Kay's Style

Recalling one of Kay's styles of writing, lovingly taught as an English teacher at "The Ridge", I make another weak attempt at "stream of consciousness".  (A previous attempt was posted October 28, 2018.  Have I improved?  Let’s just say it’s different.) 

"So many Sunday memories stream through my mind ... including Sister Cannon's ministering in Michigan ... and attending her last sacrament meeting (at our alma mater, the U of U) ... I must add to this later."  So, here it goes … briefly.

Kay’s Lighthouses 2007 calendar — Sundays 

Jan. 28: “R.S. Sing with Colleen, ‘I’m Trying to Be like Jesus’. V.T. Carol, Susan, & Colleen.”  Feb. 4: “I gave R.S. Lesson on Unity & Love in Our Sisterhood. Visited 3 sisters. [Met with] Cannys, Hayle, Angie & Katie.”  2/11: “Katie was called to be gospel doctrine teacher.”  3/4: “Helen & I visited.  Angie & Katie made great Brazilian dinner.”  3/11: Hinckley family meeting.  4/8 Easter: “Prayed in sacrament meeting. Quinn & Barbara & family and Ann & Spence for dinner.”  4/20: “Angie, Chris, Katie …”. 

June 3: “Give R.S. Lesson — Vacation From Worldly Ways.”  6/10: Ward Council 8 a.m.  

Saturday 6/9 and Monday 6/11: [Ogden history, our Colonial Court neighbor, Joanne Hanson’s] “Cemetery Tour — Katie as Indian maiden, Pomona” [daughter of Ute chief and wife of Miles Goodyear]

Kay’s Paradise 2008 calendar, also interesting: Sunday, Feb. 3: ”Church closed after sacrament mtg. due to snow.”  [2/22/2026, more memories to come.  Also a lot more snow, we hope!]

Added from my LFF Notes for easy reference:

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

And from my Spanish Notes, as I love to say:

Mi esposa se llama Kay Hinckley Cannon.

Disposable Treasures

Do I keep family treasures … just in case someone in our posterity will value them and not be burdened?  Will physical treasures remind them that family history is important and fascinating?  Or will digital photos and transcriptions do the same without taking up physical space?

These and other questions are on my mind while lightening my load and being fascinated by family treasures I bring to light.  They bring me joy.  Will our great-grandchildren be the ones to appreciate them?  

An extreme example is Grandmother Cannon’s upright grand piano we inherited, enjoyed for 42 years, and fortunately gave to my niece, who later gave to her neighbor.  A disposable, rightfully shared treasure.  I carefully keep the memories and digital photos taken along the way.  A video of my wife Kay playing “the blues” on the Cannon piano is priceless — a keeper.  What do you treasure and want to share?

Deliberately Slower Pace

This year, now that I’m older, I am enjoying a slower pace in life, intentionally making fewer heavy commitments.  It’s my choice to deliberately drive less, feel less driven, reduce stress, listen to others more, and lighten my load as a recovering collector. 

Taking time to support memory is a higher priority this year.  Deliberate reminders, properly placed on iPhone Calendar and Notes, are more vital than ever.  For the record after shopping, I change “Get” to “Got”.  My wife Kay’s habit of crossing out handwritten lists worked well for her.  Our children enjoy reviewing her saved notebooks as a type of detailed diary.

A favorite performance of “Slow Down”, sung by Sissel in the 2019 Pioneer Concert with The Tabernacle Choir, is a heavenly reminder with a link kept in my Notes.  It helps me feel God’s love.  Treat yourself to a slower pace at times, and have a blessed day!

tying up loose ends

There’s a challenge!  Thinking of things I should have done at the end of December.  So, near the end of January, I have some “loose ends to tie up” this year — hopefully not next year.  (Btw, as recently heard, what does “this next year” mean?) 

Definition of the idiom, tying up loose ends: “To complete, finalize, or tidy up the last remaining pieces of work.”  “Origin: Often attributed to nautical terminology, referring to sailors securing loose ropes before a ship’s departure.”  Example: editing and adding to my memoir published last November, to “put on the finishing touches” for its next edition.

It may be too late to start this year with a clean slate.  No matter, recalling my "New Week's Resolutions" posted Sunday, 12/27/2015: “Today is a new beginning – the start of a new week.”  Or feel free to take one day at a time — there you go!

Avoiding Ambiguity

New Year’s resolution 2026: Be specific!

ambiguity: “… open to more than one interpretation”  — Oxford Languages

For example, I texted our daughter 10/28/2025, “Let's plan a fun place to meet on Monday -- just my preferred day.”  Meaning: just because it’s my preferred day.  Not: only on my preferred day.

Since myHometown Ogden South recently moved their Community Resource Center (“CRC”) from 24th Street to 27th Street, I refer to the old center, still serving the community, as “CRC1” to simply avoid ambiguity.  ( I volunteer at both resource centers.)  On 2nd thought, better to clarify: “old CRC on 24th St.”  (Sigh.)

Celebrate the season

What is there about winter that inspires celebration?

Crisp, cold air with sunshine as a welcome change from the hot summer in Ogden Utah.  Freedom from yard work while hoping for snow we need.  Memories of skiing the challenging slopes of Alta, Park West, Solitude, and Powder Mountain.  Fun skating at Neptune and the Ice Sheet, Ogden.  The joy of warming with a loved one by a fireplace.

In mid-January, recalling a warm thaw last year, the anticipation of spring around the corner.  Enjoying a slower pace, now that I’m older, with resolutions made two weeks ago.  Past the holiday rush, now savoring the never-ending spirit of Christmas giving.

nice to know

Christmas celebration was extended again through January 6th for Three Kings Day, reminding us of wise men who gave gifts to the child Jesus.  That tradition my parents brought from Switzerland in 1974 includes gift giving in a family get-together. 

It’s also nice to know, “You can relax now.”  

— WQXR Classical NY 

I can “find comfort and joy in [dark] chocolate.”  — Dove wrapper

“The Spirit knoweth all things …” (Alma 7:13)

I can hit the sack (idiom) when I’m exhausted; and renew my strength. 

After counseling with my friend Julie, visiting from Iowa on Sunday 12/28, I realized I deal with sadness by running, walking, and sleeping.  And I resolve it by serving others — outward focus.  Nice to know.

“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”  (Philippians 4:13)

Reminding those who watch scary world news, God is in control.