Tuesday, May 21, 2024

Taking a Listen

A gentleman from England (judging by his accent) hosts a Saturday radio program I’ve enjoyed for years.  Last week he encouraged us to “take a listen next time.”  That phrase was new to me and seemed odd.  In other words, I take it to mean, “Please take the opportunity to hear next week’s program.”  His short version actually says it best. 

You have probably been frustrated when a friendly conversation is one-way … while wondering if the talker will ever take a listen to what you want to share.  A good friend of mine, who died, knew my preference for listening rather than talking.  He took full advantage of that for many years, generously sharing his life with me and others, including fast-food workers delivering at drive-thru windows.  A lonely, younger man with a kind heart, he often gave his last dollar (and likely a story) to fellow sufferers on the street.  Three seasons of the year, even when temporarily homeless, he set up his drums to let strangers take a listen to his popular music at a park and humbly accepted donations he never expected.

Another thought: It’s good to slow down and listen to nature, inspiring music, and the Spirit, who offers personal revelation.  You may wish to include that when planning summer retreats.