Monday, August 10, 2026

two ships passing

Meeting interesting people at the Ogden community resource center is always a pleasure.  However, rarely does my wish for lasting friendship come to fruition.  It’s usually like (an idiom) two ships passing in the night.


Two years ago, I randomly stopped to see what was happening in that former Ogden Regional Family History Center, where I had volunteered for two years around 2007.  There I met young Dana Lou, the “Artistic Director” and “Creative Landscaper”, a notable example of lasting friendship.  Thanks to her, I soon got involved with myHometown Ogden.  Realizing a different meaning of the ships idiom, she and I often have contrasting schedules (night owl and early bird) as I go to volunteer several times a week.  


As a married couple raising children, Kay & I were often like two ships passing … (night owl and early bird).  As empty nesters, we settled into a more synched (synchronized) routine   (two night owls?)   Life is good … with love.


Tuesday, August 4, 2026

treasure trove

“For where your treasure is …”  (Matt. 6:21)


My sentimental stuff?  Our kids don’t want it.  Can’t take it with me.  Scan&Discard is working to let go and find a few treasures worth keeping in the process.  Time is passing too quickly as we help others deal with their stuff. 


What were Kay & I thinking in the 80s while we raised our family and remodeled the home in East Mill Creek?  Managing life and loving our children.  When the big property sold, good neighbors helped us lighten our load and downsize.  A trove of treasures hopefully went where things would finally be used.


Years later as empty nesters, we found freedom and peace in small apartments our five children visited.  We treasure memories and each other.