Hold That Thought

"When you get older, you may find it harder to remember," I thought as I forgot why I went into the kitchen.  "What was I thinking?"

I woke up in the middle of a dream about helping an older woman walk home from the mall.  Rarely do I remember a dream, so hold that thought -- she was so appreciative. 

Found my Memory Magic kit in storage last week.  (Got it with a seminar I attended around 1976.  Still remember and use some of what I learned.)  Mnemonic devices or aids work well for this old man, who needs memory help more than ever.  (Can't believe I remembered how to spell it.  Of course I looked it up to be sure.)

Fortunately, I remember our wedding anniversary (date engraved on my ring) -- it's a good thing!  No need to look it up ... yet.

Cheers for Pioneers

Reverting to my pattern of writing a day late, this one’s for Pioneer Day.  About ten days of celebration ended on the 24th of July (except for fireworks still being used up tonight by neighbors who must really feel the Pioneer-Day spirit.  I write when I can’t sleep.)  We honor the Mormon pioneers who endured the westward trek to Utah, some dying along the way, others arriving in 1847 and subsequent years before the railroad.

We hear it said, "Life was much harder for the pioneers, so we should be grateful for the easy life we lead today in this country."  On the other hand, we are often reminded that our youth now face greater challenges because of the world we live in.  However, we are all blessed with freedom here in the Promised Land, our land of endless opportunity.

But what if you don't have a great job, or you wake up with a feeling of overwhelming sadness … or when you get home, the basement is flooded or your family is sick and ornery (kids, that means "bad-tempered & combative").  How do you go forth with faith?  Where do you find the strength?

The Lord reminds us in the Scriptures and in one of our favorite Primary songs:

“If with all your hearts ye truly seek me,

Ye shall ever surely find me”  (from Elijah, an oratorio written by Felix Mendelssohn, who died in 1847).

I know God lives and loves all of His children.  That is my testimony.

I pray that each of us will rely on Him, seek guidance from the Holy Ghost and help from each other, and maintain a deep reservoir of spiritual strength for crossing the mountains of trials in life.  With love.

Cheers ... for pioneers.  In the strength of the Lord, let us all go forth with faith.

Sunday Driver

In remembrance of our anniversary and the Sabbath, I started collecting a few photos of our Sunday travels to post as family history (not in chronological order).
By the way, I did most of the driving on Kay's days of rest.  She is truly my beautiful, eternal companion!

charmed by Blanding on the way home from New Mexico

with grandson at LDS Conference Center roof garden, SLC

Brigham finding some room at the top

oldest church, Conejos CO (not on Sunday, so no services)

with grandson by Temple Square & Church Office Bldg, Salt Lake City

Buckley Park picnic after attending Church in Durango, Colorado

(The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints)

Fourth for Freedom & Family

We joined extended family at the ranch yesterday -- for food and fun!  More than I have ever seen at this annual EQC Family reunion – mostly young couples & children I should get to know.   Great tradition and gathering place!  Some hiked the hill, a few rode horses, others went rafting.  Kids played badminton and volleyball on the front lawn.

Kay held our sleeping princess for an hour, and we mainly visited with my Aunt Marg (still sharp, gorgeous, and loving at age 91).

Freedom lovers all, grateful for this country of America.  God bless!

Knowing Where You're Going

The long-awaited "call" came Thursday May 18th to our "permanent" post office box in Layton, Utah.  It was the busiest time of Kay's 20-year teaching career, with two weeks left to wrap up the school year before retirement and our big family trip.  Only two weeks earlier, we had moved to Farr West after quickly selling our frontier home.  Potentially overwhelming!

Our agreement was to open the letter alone together, so we could process it privately as a senior couple before sharing the news.  After school, having parked at the LDS temple by our former home in Ogden, we opened the large envelope and read our assignment to serve in the ... (braced on edge of car seats, eyes focused with anticipation) ... 
Michigan Detroit Mission of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 
for 23 months.

It took some time for the location to sink in.  (Not Alaska or Argentina, Pennsylvania or Prince Edward Island.)  The "member and leader support" assignment was especially exciting.  What's more, we get to be full-time companions throughout our mission, and we'll be just across the river from Kay's dear Canada!  Gratefully, we had each other for discussion in solitude.  Immediate feedback from family & friends was positive -- first a text and cheerful phone call from our son Spencer, a bishop who has enjoyed recent business trips there and loved the big city and beauties of Michigan.  That spelled relief.

Such a peaceful setting for accepting a somewhat scary calling ... to live and work in central Detroit?  We thought about it and later pondered with the aid of comfort food at Kneaders Cafe.  That night, our acceptance online was short and sweet.

Kay & I trust that we will be needed in Michigan, and will love the people as we love the Lord. That is exciting!  In fact, the mission secretary called us a week or so later and asked if we would help in the office for the first month or two.  (Computers, etc.)

After years of planning for a mission together, it's great to know where we are going.  As on a flight or road trip with a map or GPS, it's important in life to know your destination.  Where would you choose to go?

leaving Santa Fe B&B 15 June 2017 – just the two of us

"And I'm like ..."

Car horns honk all around ... to lock doors.  And I'm like ... is that annoying noise necessary?  Or is there another way to lock late-model cars?

(Sorry.  I had to ... like ... get two things off my mind by writing.)

Have a pleasant day!

Memorial Day: Memories

Just another Monday holiday?  Not so.  This Memorial Day, I recall treasured memories and cemetery scenes that remind me of eternal family.  I am so grateful.

(Posted 25 May 2014, about those who have passed on:)

With love for family and friends who are actually more alive than we who are living.

And there is room here for more memories.  There is no end …