Time running out

It’s about time!  Since 2010, I like to write at least once a month, as a random, “baby-steps” form of personal history.

How time flies … and sometimes crawls, like during a meeting.  Hours for reading and playing piano, as I did for two years in “assisted living” — a luxury on hold since I moved downtown.  Time for family as a high priority?  For all my adult life, I have believed the holiday season (4th quarter) is prime time for “reaching out”, as many say.  Annual newsletters summarizing the time of your life — a priceless tradition in my wife’s Hinckley Family.  Kay & I have been married 53 years so far, yet unforgettable times we recorded are recalled like yesterday.  In 1975, she led singing on the charter bus to Disneyland.

I remember the remarkable program of home teaching, when time was running out at the end of the month, urging 11th-hour visits before it was time to report, while I was suggesting some needed a visit every three or five weeks.  Now it’s a continuum, as I see it, according to needs as prompted by the Spirit.  A timely adjustment for these last days.

Another disjointed post, as one reader described my blog.  Some others like freestyle writing.  My time is short, I feel.  How blessed we are, knowing life goes on without end!

(To be continued … before it runs out.)

Minor to Major

The change in keys, typical in most symphonies, can relate to life.  I have heard many works starting in a minor key, sounding sad or foreboding, and ending in a major key, sounding joyful or triumphant.  Multiple changes are often heard throughout a piece.

Life can be like that.  An attitude of gratitude can turn a hopeless feeling into a happy state of mind.  That is my experience.

In a different sense of the words, focusing on minor tasks of little importance, should change to major accomplishments, as one matures and learns to prioritize.  I am still working on that.  However, it should be noted that small acts of service have major effects on the lives of others, especially when passed forward … with love.

a kid at heart

Cookies, m&m candy, and Halloween treats. 

Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches with milk.

Organic animal crackers (all animals are organic, so it goes without saying).

Razor kick scooter — actually my senior mobility device for fun and cheap transportation.

Rollerblading — a senior balance exercise. 

Model railroad for my second childhood. 

Children’s songs, especially some I loved in Primary.  (“Teach Me to Walk in the Light”)

These are a few of my favorite things … whenever I feel like a kid at heart. 

Hints From Grandma Kay

Be adventurous!

Plan family vacations.  Go, learn, and have fun!

Learn to play piano or other instrument, and love it.

Don’t let a garage or unfinished basement turn into a storage trap.  Simplify!

Wives, let your husband sometimes open and close the car door for you, as gentlemen used to do.  Lovingly encourage him to help you in other ways.  Praise him.

Husbands, be kind and communicative with your wife.  Together at church and events, keep her in mind as the most important person there, hopefully close … with love.

Keep a journal.

“Live every day to its fullest.  Act on good impressions.  Follow the Prophet with love for the Lord.”

Remember me.

Hints From Grandpa Ned

Repurpose an old toothbrush to sweep lint off the dryer screen.  Also good for sweeping bugs into a bottle.

To disable a laptop CapsLock key, jam a bit of TP under the left end.  My problem solved!

Use a very short paring knife for most food preparation, including carving-out ice cream.

Keep a big $4 Walmart clock in its box frame to easily keep track of time in the bathroom or wherever (mobile); cover it at night to mute the tick-tock.

Choose Oreo Mini cookies to reduce sugar intake.  Same for healthy Hershey’s Miniatures - Special Dark Chocolate Assortment (recommended one a day).

(Dove dark chocolate: “Be fearlessly authentic.”)

Shop Costco at peak busy times to avoid the temptation to wait for a cheap hot dog or slice of pizza.  (Works every time for me.)  Read something inspiring while waiting for check-out.

Apartment dwellers: use Bluetooth headphone for high-volume music etc. to avoid annoying the neighbors who have sensitive hearing like mine. Save the smart speaker for the social/club room.

Slow down sometimes, read a good book, and know that God loves and guides His children. 

Be prepared. 

Envelope Notes

Last Saturday, listening to the BBC Proms concert, I was impressed with Emily Dickinson’s “Envelope Poems”.  ( I will look into her history about that.)  My first thought was of notes Grandfather Cannon often wrote on envelopes as scratch paper.  ( I do the same with used envelopes carefully opened and saved.  Why not?)

Now my second thought relates to the book I’m working on — Love Notes: a tribute to my wife Kay.  Some of those tributes may have been drafted on envelopes or napkins.  Each writer certainly exhibits his or her unique style of writing.  So appreciated!

I suspect my extensive iPhone Notes and PC Notepad files lack a certain character that handwritten envelope notes preserve for future generations.  Time will tell. 

Never a dull moment

It’s true.  In contrast to some former neighbors challenged with boredom, I have never been bored — not since the summer when, as a little boy, I complained to my mama that I was bored with nothing to do.  So, she put me right to work.  Problem solved … for the rest of my life.

There is never a dull moment, even during times of renewal, such as resting with music, snacking with dark chocolate, and walking for exercise at Costco.  Learning from salespersons never frightens me.  Browsing in the public library always fascinates me.  Visiting family and friends brings me joy. 

Yes, I find life is more amazing away from my phone and TV.  Never dull in my experience.  How is that possible.