(9/8/18 memories at 6am-Mtn)
A song by The Sandpipers instantly became a favorite of ours when heard on the way west — our first trip as newlyweds. That Saturday was a special day following our marriage 47 years ago.
Yesterday was an extraordinary day with Kay! She was amazing, reviewing family history with Angie, signing documents with an angel notary, visiting with her CNS nurse, winning Bananagrams with me, and enjoying a favorite French film called “Cyrano ...”. (Parallelism pleases my English teacher.) Naturally, all this made her grateful ... and tired at the end of a productive day. Prayers were surely answered ... in the strength of the Lord. Thanks, everyone!
10:30pm This Saturday was remarkable! An uplifting, special day for Kay and me, you see.
Tomorrow, the first day of the week, I should start a fresh new post. It was a wonderful weekend!
Here it is ... Friday the 7th already, considered by some forward-looking people to be the weekend!
7am-Mtn ... after replying to some close friends who go to work early.
Yesterday was a full day for Kay, our caregiver children, and our sons who helped me retrieve family history at our Layton storage unit. (Lots of interesting stuff!) Brief, quiet visits by friends were appreciated, with love. We watched the Mr. Rogers film with our children — something Kay has especially wanted to do. It is heartwarming, as many of you know.
Kay is waking up now, after a peaceful sleep, so I may add some later.
Ether 2:25 (the Lord responded to the brother of Jared ... with a question:)
“Therefore what will ye that I should prepare for you that ye may have light ...”
Thursday 9/6, on time 6am-Mtn, after reading to Kay some late-night, sweet messages from nieces and nephews while she got her kick-start with lemonade slush. So much love with fun memories — a great way to start the day at 4:44! Yesterday we were super blessed with visitors, starting with our angel Angie (in charge for the day) and the chaplain from CNS Ogden. This kind, lovely young woman remembered Angie from Upland Terrace Elementary School in EMC, Salt Lake City! They were so happy as they reminisced! Comforting to Kay as well, meeting such a caring new friend.
My urgent task was to close out our “luxury” apartment on 2nd Ave (near HH). This old man, he had a ton to do there, packing, loading, cleaning, and vac. The little red Buick “truck” served well again, nearly to capacity. (Imagine the pioneers moving a household with a wagon and team of oxen!)
Oh, what a blessing to be settled down in a charming home where Kay is relatively comfortable, at peace.
She was happy to see our returned-missionary friend Norma from Colonial Court Apts. Sister Susan and Jack made the long trip to see Kay, knowing her love for Mrs. Cavanaugh’s chocolates (the best in my experience, having worked there). Late afternoon, her best childhood friend Betsy came with her husband, having finished another season of missionary service; their Farr Better fudge ice cream helped Kay feel joy! A dear teacher friend Jan brought amazing gifts and DVDs to watch; she was another angel watching over Kay while I was running as fast as a senior can.
Our son Curtis and Tricia were so kind to visit, staying late until I returned home, exhausted.
Loving text messages from her nieces, nephews, and others brought joy to their “fun, cool” Aunt Kay all day, continuing till midnight. Today she will read more of them. Precious thoughts and memories — every one bringing smiles, sometimes mixed with tears of love.
Sincere thanks again to everyone for your love and prayers!
Wednesday 9/5, adding late at 8am — sun’s up, brightening our east-side living room in east Ogden, a favorite city! I failed to get WiFi password from landlord after move-in yesterday, so iPhone is doing the best we can. Still sleeping peacefully; the watermelon and toasted tortilla she ate at 4:00 AM helped. ( I like early breakfast, too.)
Getting into this charming home was a miracle! Our children who helped find and furnish it are real angels!!! Everyone who fasted, prayed, and searched for homes ... all were recognized by God for those efforts, and we have been blessed accordingly.
We sincerely thank you!
Dinner delivered yesterday by dear siblings was heavenly, and their loving presence brought sweet tears. Daughter Katie, in charge Tuesday, truly went the extra miles, as did son Spencer, setting up house and helping their mom move in and rest comfortably. Thanks again!!
Tuesday 9/4/2018, running late at 8am-Mtn, having emailed our grandson serving a mission in MBM.
Good news! Yesterday we finally found and secured our charming, furnished, permanent home in Ogden, only 6 miles southeast of Katie's Farr West gathering place (to remain our mailing address until further notice).
We are moving in today -- so exciting.
With love and appreciation for all of you dear Family and Friends!!
Our Sabbath yesterday was non-traditional, as we were not up to attending Church. The needed sleep until noon, thanks to everyone's fasting and prayers, was a tender mercy! I read the sacrament prayers to her, among other things, to lift our spirits. Messages and gifts from dear ones helped a lot – thank you! Generally felt better all afternoon and evening ... definitely a blessed day!
We had expected a first visit from the CNS nurse Saturday afternoon, then yesterday morning, but finally we were blessed with a one-hour interview at 4:30. She was professional, kind, and thorough. After all the talk, including my many questions and input, the patient was worn out. I am positively impressed with their home-healthcare program, and highly recommend CNS. (Med's were promptly ordered by the nurse and delivered by CNS Pharmacy shortly thereafter. So smooth.)
Our helpful, Arizona-pharmacist son spent time here after that, facing the Scrabble Queen who knows words like few others; (I forgot who won, but it was a blessed distraction for her). Afterwards his family, accompanied by three of our other children, came from a visit to Temple Square SLC, and tearfully said goodbyes before their return trip today. Tears of love for Grandma!
Sleeping peacefully again now, out in the living room to write something while feeling pain and fatigue. Always writers, it will be interesting to see how we will do that on the other side ... with so much more to write about!
We know that our Redeemer lives!! He is our Savior, and today is His special Sabbath day to honor.
The power of prayer is being manifest to us – thank you ... we love you, dear Family and Friends!
9/1/6am-Mtn Welcome, September and end of a rough week! Yes, still sleeping peacefully.
Yesterday 4pm we were blessed to have a short-notice appointment with her busy, compassionate HH team. Based on her 8/30 operation, her chief dr. (with a wonderful team of staff present) kindly gave the final assessment. She quickly concurred and made the decision for no treatment that would just make her more tired and sick. We were so grateful to have our youngest there with us to help her mom.
~7pm My nephew and his loving, creative wife brought a package of fun, comforting gifts. As they were leaving, I showed them the "secret garden", where we have enjoyed peaceful retreat.
~8:40pm Her oldest brother visited on his way home from the Salt Lake temple, and had a wonderful chat. (He was recently called as a stake patriarch in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.)
8/31/2:34pm (24 hours since "resting" at home) Preparing to see her HH doctor this afternoon (and he needs to see her) to get answers based on yesterday's operation.
8/31/4am-Mtn addition: Where has this month almost gone? (A rhetorical question ... "to make a statement rather than to elicit information.")
Peaceful sleep so far – a tender mercy.
Yesterday, after arriving "home" from the hospital (with no stent, as it was impossible), the typical pain and misery of recovery made her cry, begging for comfort ... to feel the love and power of everyone's prayers. (She was distraught since the U hospital pharmacist called too soon for her Cannon Rx pick-up; in a wheelchair, she forgot I was running to get the car. Tearfully, "Where were you?!") You know she's a strong one; before retiring to bed at 8pm, she settled down with a tiny dinner and a favorite brain-tingling distraction on the big screen:
"Jeopardy!" is a classic game show -- with a twist. The answers are given first, and the contestants supply the questions.
What questions would you supply about life, death, and the hereafter?
Grateful to know the truth about Heavenly Father's plan of happiness.
These updates will be fluid – sort of like Facebook, which usually shows the most recent addition, above older news below. All in one post for awhile.
(Forgive me for adding old non-related photos, usually to randomly share family history. It's a habit since 2010.)
Google defines (synonym) free-flowing: "moving in a continuous, steady stream."
And defines stent: "a tubular support placed temporarily inside a blood vessel, canal, or DUCT to aid healing or relieve an obstruction."
[Thursday 8/30: She is to get one this morning at HH (best in the West!) That would spell relief!]
Instructions: No fast food the day before, and no drink after midnight.
Okay for her, and I'm fine with fasting.
9:30am Arrived on time at U Hospital check-in; (surprise – not HH.)
Good job with lots of Q & A ... caring nurses & doctors.
11am Pre-op added 3rd pre-heated blanket; comfort!
11:11 She went in, thanks to very capable staff.
12:22 Moving to recovery now.
Tender mercies from the Lord.
12:44 More news later; (too soon to tell it all).
2:11 Arrived "home" OK (safely, having survived the ordeal) – a short drive in her little red Buick.
2:34 Resting now, relieved to be out of the hospital.
Thanks, everyone, for your faith and prayers!
With love ...
my adventurous bride - Bryce Canyon National Park
Sunrise Point trailhead 25 June 2010
grandchildren walking up irrigation ditch at the ranch
Kay and a few siblings (older brother & sister with hats in the lead)
walking like their pioneer ancestors did at Cove Fort, Utah 24 June 2010
walking like their pioneer ancestors did at Cove Fort, Utah 24 June 2010
(Ned taking photo, trying to keep up with her family, as usual)
(Who is that cute boy, reverently bowing his head?)
recalling a favorite children's song, "I Feel My Savior's Love"
