As empty nesters, Kay and I lingered longer after Church, catching up with old (and young) friends, taking care of callings, scheduling the week, and doing our little share of cleaning up. At “top speed”, this took half an hour. We were usually among the last few to vacate the building. Many are aware of the “three-hour block” of Sunday meetings. For us, it was normally a “3.5-hour block”. For many leaders, it was an “all-day block”, bless their hearts.
Without children to hurry home, Kay and I developed more patience with each other, taking turns being the lingerer. Typically in Roseville, Michigan, we were equal in lingering longer — so it was through our final Sunday, 5 August 2018, without a formal farewell. Sister Cannon favored the Relief Society room while Elder Cannon said farewells etc. in the foyer by the exit. Friends waiting to ride with us were patient and understanding. The monthly singles’ “home evening” linger-longer with food was a welcome bonus for us and other 45-and-older seniors. It was as if time stood still — with love, who was watching the clock?
Now, about the “Farewell” part, Google defines it as an “exclamation used to express good wishes on parting. Synonym: cheers”; (many of us would punctuate that with an exclamation point!) Who can recall the 1980 farewell to three separate meetings spread throughout Sunday, plus meetings on other days? I believe that was a welcome change to the new “consolidated meeting schedule”, commonly referred to as the “three-hour block” ... when our children were very young. Even without elaborate, protective car seats, our family life was simplified. Three hours of Church — a stretch for little ones and aging ones, but a refreshing change nonetheless.
Although I still feel no reason to hurry home, I welcome the inspired schedule adjustment next Sunday. Two hours followed by individual study will suit me. Feelings of nostalgia will linger longer ... as I recall “the good old days” of our loving that “3.5-hour block” — my faithful companion and I, together with dear friends.
Tears ... and cheers, everyone!
